Sunday, August 16, 2009

My Lord, Look What Just Landed in My Mailbox!











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I post above the fold on
Casting-room Couch the intelligent comment of a reader below in response to Vox's opinions on the coming-out of Candy's husband. I consider it an astute piece of insight into the situation of Candy's late-breaking husband's identifying himself as gay.

I have seen one of the Olson daughters with her mother at Tiger Bay Tampa before I got kicked out of there for being too tough on the politicians. They would whine to the board that they wouldn't appear again if I were there. This Candy daughter I saw went to Harvard and is tall and beautiful. I heard she was enlightened on gays. She will need that resource now to deal with her father's revelation.

The reason Bart and I are buds despite our 40-year age difference is that he is so open and brave about being gay. And he will initiate nutty things like I do at any minute. We are the same mental age in stirring up things.

I think he must have told his mother with his first lisps, "Mom. I'm gay." Yet he suffered growing up because of the negative attitude of the masses to gays. But that attitude is changing, thanks to the young people. My granddaughter who graduated from Plant was a member of the gay-lesbian support group that adulteress Jennifer Falliero tried to make the school authorities report a student's belonging to that club to the parents because Falliero thought being gay or lesbian was immoral. I don't know how she managed to come to any moral conclusions while stalking former Community Affairs head Marc Hart until he divorced his wife and harmed his two young children, one of whom's grades plummeted, the other whose illness exacerbated. Her sexual morals are selective indeed. She dumped Marc Hart when her activities at the administration building got him fired and nobody would hire him in Tampa because he was blacklisted by the ROSSAC thugs. They made Falliero the School Board chair. That's their idea of justice.

Bart is lucky to have wonderful parents. His mother is a tiny wisp of a woman, and his father is a rugged-looking American man of the people who has a sardonic attitude about the denizens who pass his field of vision. Bart's mother ran away at twelve because of an abusive father and earned her bread by doing menial jobs. When she sighted Bart's father, who was in Japan then with the army, she scooped him up. Bart and one sister were the result.

This sister died in an asthma attack on the way to the hospital. Bart grieves her still.

Bart is a good fellow. I have only one son, an engineer with NASA. When he was at Plant, he used to coach all the mediocre boys in physics so that they could get into Gainsville. Those are now all lawyers, so watch out for the brains deficit in the legal eagles hereabouts. Tom Gonzales is one of those. He, by the way, brags of his being born in Anglo Tampa and having lived there all his life. He keeps the Latino community at bay. He doesn't want to be identified with those people.

I always wanted another boy to go with my Leo to balance his three sisters, and Bart is he. As second mother, I stuck by Bart when he got the Scarlet Letter of the Political Standards hell hole of sadism. The ruffians made Bart's "offense" up. This was a case of their taking a small chit of data and turning it into a firing offense.

Vox is in training to be my third son and qualifies by keeping his hair combed, his nails clean, and refusing to let any psychosexually foot-fetishist administrators from fondling his naked feed. Vox has just about taken over my blog, and I may just hand it over to him formally and go back to needlepointing rugs for my granddaughters' weddings, going to opera, and reading, reading, reading.

Apparently all Bart's teacher friends peeled away when Professional Standards tagged him as if he had contracted ROSSAC leprosy. That response was a sad revelation. Teachers are smart and educated. Their students adore them or at least most of them. If teachers can act with such lack of guts and loyalty to coercion by the colony of fascists who occupy ROSSAC, what can the poor souls who don't know their Constitutional rights do when self-appointed overlords like those in the schools try to annihilate them?

What a world. lee


Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "My Lord, Look What Just Landed in My Mailbox!":

Vox,
I appreciate your saying that about me. I didn't expect that! Thank you! I think that the man in question is from another generation than I am. I don't quite understand what took him so long to figure out what he likes. Part of me feels for his wife, if all this is true, because I don't think it is right for gay men to get married if they have an inkling. Maybe he was in such denial that he did not admit it to even himself. I went through that in high school.
Anyway, I am from a newer generation, so I don't quite understand it, but I do think a lot of gays have major problems admitting it to themselves and to others. We do grow up sort of knowing but sort of in denial, and it is hard to finally admit to yourself and others, because you think you're going to lose friends and get cut off from family. You think you're going to lose all respect.
But personally I find it tragic to come out later in life, because your looks are fading. The gay community is very youth oriented. Gay men face what women face in regular society. We have very limited shelf life.
Bart

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Reader email: My bitchy neighbor who is being nice currently just called me and told
me the Candy Olson scoop. Apparently, John Olson came out of the closet and sent an email telling the whole Gasparilla Krewe that he belonged to that he is gay and has never been happier in his life, etc. She is going to try to get me a copy of the letter. I think he says that his daughters are coming to terms with it.

Supposedly, Candy and he were sort of separated for a long time, even when they were living together.

Lee: I almost fell over when I read this email. Killers like this have to see publication.

I had tea with some buds from my old South Tampa neighborhood a few weeks ago. They say Candy has had to sell her house in South Tampa and has put a contract on a condo in the Hyde Park shopping district; but she has seen another condo that she likes better and is trying to wiggle out of the contract.

I had hopes that Candy's divorce would mean she moved to another district; no such luck. With her divorce a fact, she will cling to the School Board perch even more tenaciously. Woe betide the Hillsborough County children. She does not give one itty bitty damn for them. I could tolerate the bad duds she affects but not her indifference to the children's needs and her everlasting filibusters on the podium. lee

Social Chair of Ye Mystique Krewe:


I have received the following email on my blog leedrurydecesarescasting-roomcouch.blogspot.com.


Please comment on its accuracy. Has John Olson notified the Krewe that he is gay and "never been happier" and that his daughters are "coming to terms with the situation"?

If so, a cover-up is not in the community's interest nor, indeed, in the Krewe's interest.


Please respond to this question.


lee drury de cesare


10 comments:

Vox Populi said...

Well NO WONDER she is prone to cover up for TOE CRACKERS.

This is in NO WAY a disparagement to gays one of whom I am well related to; others whom I deeply admire. Still, there are aholes in EVERY CROWD.
Now, that said ... I'll just say that from all the GOP'ers I know .. coverup of normal gayness and the MUCH LESS NORMAL child fetishes or PORN are prevalent within the GOP community. My family member was handed a CD by one of them which PLANTED PORN on his computer when he went to an online connection it asked him to make. MAJOR SCANDAL IF REVEALED. You'd think these people would be kissing my ass. NOT IN THE LEAST. They have waged a war of threats ever since.
Which has WAY MORE to do with the subject of a man living a LIE for YEARS than most people would GET or than I could cover in a comment.

WHOOO they're turning on each other like RATS. Of course, I DO understand some gays staying in the closet but the whole 'living a lie thing' has more to do with self-preservation and sometimes being a COWARD than anything else.

Bart Birdsall stands right out there and takes the heat and tells not the first lie. I hope no one defends John Olson. Let him be happy. Recognize his coverup and what else it might have hidden.

WOW. I'm lovin it. There's a BUNCH of them in the closet in the tampa fire dept and THAT again, is NOT the only thing they are covering up.

Also, emailer, if your bitchy neighbor is being nice, watch your ass. You're NOT that desperate for friends.

Anonymous said...

Vox has it right. It makes sense she covers for toe poppers! She's been covering for a gay husband for years probably! She probably hasn't had sex in years, so that explains why she's such a bitch!

Anonymous said...

Vox,
I appreciate your saying that about me. I didn't expect that! Thank you! I think that the man in question is from another generation than I am. I don't quite understand what took him so long to figure out what he likes. Part of me feels for his wife, if all this is true, because I don't think it is right for gay men to get married if they have an inkling. Maybe he was in such denial that he did not admit it to even himself. I went through that in high school.
Anyway, I am from a newer generation, so I don't quite understand it, but I do think a lot of gays have major problems admitting it to themselves and to others. We do grow up sort of knowing but sort of in denial, and it is hard to finally admit to yourself and others, because you think you're going to lose friends and get cut off from family. You think you're going to lose all respect.
But personally I find it tragic to come out later in life, because your looks are fading. The gay community is very youth oriented. Gay men face what women face in regular society. We have very limited shelf life.
Bart

twinkobie said...

See my comment on the main blog above the announcement of the coming out of Candy's husband. Lee

Vox Populi said...

part ONE OF TWO.


Bart ! LOL ! (shelf life) (but first of all ..


a question for lee: do I comment too much? I hope not. I think the comments are what keep the traffic driving but I don't wish to offend YOU, lee. I don't mind offending those who are offensive in the least. I just happen to agree with a lot of what you say and then commment)
Now, to bart: I think you're VERY brave. Or just plain normal like all of us used to be. What lee said about you describes me, also. I will initiate when it needs initiating. Sometimes not realizing what I've started. L O L.

Humanly, of course, I feel for candy, her husband, their children .. everyone. When we were growing up we disguised that my Father was deceased because in a good Catholic school EVERYONE has a mom and a dad. So, I know of some coverup. And, believe me ... people will make some shit about a child's father DYING in a car-wreck so you don't have to be gay to be TROD ON. As you know.
Their money and such will shield them well. What makes me angry is that she(candy)/the board/ELIA kick around SCHOOL CHILDREN and even send trained bullies in to intimidate the parents through their school age children. Then they want no stones thrown at their glass house((s(.
I'm sure keeping his standing in the community has a lot to do with the educational accolades, etc.
I know lots of gay men who cover it up and trust SOME w/the knowledge or just ignore or do not address the 'rumors'. And, one of my oldest, dearest gay friends is probably in his late seventies or early eighties (he'll never tellLOL) and still in there dancing ... so. There's that.

My main point was that if they want acceptance, graciousness, love, honesty ... all of that .. it's the LEAST they can give lee when she speaks. Also since they are PAID FOR IT, assist and ENABLE the children and parents as we seek to make our way through their maze and after reading that evaluation of elia ... A LOT MORE HONESTY. They were way too giving with that to say the least.
Look at our schools and the coverups going on and anyone who dares to peep is OUTCAST or set up as steve kemp was. ANd I suspect that black janitor who was arrested when an eight year old 'wandered' into his classroom and then went home and told her mother he touched her. (I wasn't alone in believing it sounded fishy)

Vox Populi said...

PART TWO
Maybe you are more aware of this than anyone but the librarians of Hillsborough County (who are not nazis) also feel the same way. They are AFRAID to speak up for fear of losing their jobs, being transferred or just treated like PLAIN CRAP and/or have some nazi put in with them 'observing them' until they are half crazy.
Look how the local libraries have rid themselves of children while pretending to be 'so educational' ... the libraries are full of thugs now. Go look.
So the fine patina gloss should be stripped away. If she covered up for him and covered up for elia what else is being covered up?
I'll start the list:
a. gonzalez
b. the toe fetish guy
c. what they did to doug erwin
d. what elia did with lee and her column, threatening manteiga's revenue
e. how they all work together behind the scenes
f. how you feel a little apprehensive knowing you are involving your family with someone who is one of elia's henchies.(and then they hand your minor family member a CD which plants porn on their computer)
g. the fake infighting so they can make more stupid rules
h. how maryellen elia brought every thug family from new york with her and how they keep other children in line.
i. how all this is done with the collusion of the school board
j. how you don't dare complain about a teacher or god forbid what your child will be put through
k. how they transfer the bullies from school to school to pick on children in turn if the parent is outspoken
l. how this must make the teachers react because of fear for their own jobs when a parent gets on the bad side of admin. Teacher one person won day, different the next. Parent and child: out in the cold.

Vox Populi said...

PART TWO
Maybe you are more aware of this than anyone but the librarians of Hillsborough County (who are not nazis) also feel the same way. They are AFRAID to speak up for fear of losing their jobs, being transferred or just treated like PLAIN CRAP and/or have some nazi put in with them 'observing them' until they are half crazy.
Look how the local libraries have rid themselves of children while pretending to be 'so educational' ... the libraries are full of thugs now. Go look.
So the fine patina gloss should be stripped away. If she covered up for him and covered up for elia what else is being covered up?
I'll start the list:
a. gonzalez
b. the toe fetish guy
c. what they did to doug erwin
d. what elia did with lee and her column, threatening manteiga's revenue
e. how they all work together behind the scenes
f. how you feel a little apprehensive knowing you are involving your family with someone who is one of elia's henchies.(and then they hand your minor family member a CD which plants porn on their computer)
g. the fake infighting so they can make more stupid rules
h. how maryellen elia brought every thug family from new york with her and how they keep other children in line.
i. how all this is done with the collusion of the school board
j. how you don't dare complain about a teacher or god forbid what your child will be put through
k. how they transfer the bullies from school to school to pick on children in turn if the parent is outspoken
l. how this must make the teachers react because of fear for their own jobs when a parent gets on the bad side of admin. Teacher one person won day, different the next. Parent and child: out in the cold.

Vox Populi said...

PART THREE

so, john olson should be free to live his life. Bless his daughter and hope she loves her dad and has a wonderful life.
BUT, when THEIR wonderful lives come at a cost of MILLIONS being sucked out of taxpayers and being covered up.
And children being shunted from libraries and on to medication or into a room to set up a teacher or a janitor and trying to get someone arrested and imprisoned I say TAKE NO PRISONERS.
I don't care if he's gay til the cows come home(of course) I CARE that it's indicative of the willingness to cover up all over STAMPA and all of them covering for each other while sucking from the trough.
I'm going to be quiet for awhile and try to find something to blog over at my new, untouched blog til I make sure I'm not commenting too much here.
I thought it helped to lend lee and others support in their drive to right the wrongs.
And I think the avg. person dealing with the administration since the elia takeover has a lot of insight into what they actually DO to these children of parents if someone has the nerve to speak up. Doug Erwin had to move to GA to regain a semblance of peace. Try staying and getting your family an education. She has her OWN POLICE FORCE.
The Hillsborough COunty school system is a dangerous place because of her. And because Candy and others cover up for them. Because that's what THEY DO.
So .. of course I deeply admire bart birdsall and steve kemp.

Tip of the iceberg is that lee has to reveal this rather than a reporter finding it out ... (lol) and tip of the iceberg is that some freak finally got caught FONDLING the feet of high school boys ... and NOTHING WAS DONE. Not to mention all the murders at the schools and the sexcapades of the teachers that elia prefers ... people she can relate to. Who don't check her spelling.

Because their family members are all over at the sheriff's dept hard at work in yet another TROUGH. Covering up covering up. While the citizens of Tampa go without REAL law enforcement and some without a decent education because of their THUG mentality.

It's the signs of selective education when some children can't attend school for fear of being beat up by one of the imported elia thugs. It's not like this in other places. ELIA is an environmental specialist in THUGGERY.
I think I'm still angry from reading an evaluation that described her in glowing terms .... in comparison to the reality of what she has done to our schools.
Okay, I'm done. for now.

Lee, please advise. I feel bad if I have commented too much. You're my INSPIRATION ....

Vox Populi said...

part three may be a duplication


so, john olson should be free to live his life. Bless his daughter and hope she loves her dad and has a wonderful life.
BUT, when THEIR wonderful lives come at a cost of MILLIONS being sucked out of taxpayers and being covered up.
And children being shunted from libraries and on to medication or into a room to set up a teacher or a janitor and trying to get someone arrested and imprisoned I say TAKE NO PRISONERS.
I don't care if he's gay til the cows come home(of course) I CARE that it's indicative of the willingness to cover up all over STAMPA and all of them covering for each other while sucking from the trough.
I'm going to be quiet for awhile and try to find something to blog over at my new, untouched blog til I make sure I'm not commenting too much here.
I thought it helped to lend lee and others support in their drive to right the wrongs.
And I think the avg. person dealing with the administration since the elia takeover has a lot of insight into what they actually DO to these children of parents if someone has the nerve to speak up. Doug Erwin had to move to GA to regain a semblance of peace. Try staying and getting your family an education. She has her OWN POLICE FORCE.
The Hillsborough COunty school system is a dangerous place because of her. And because Candy and others cover up for them. Because that's what THEY DO.
So .. of course I deeply admire bart birdsall and steve kemp.

Tip of the iceberg is that lee has to reveal this rather than a reporter finding it out ... (lol) and tip of the iceberg is that some freak finally got caught FONDLING the feet of high school boys ... and NOTHING WAS DONE. Not to mention all the murders at the schools and the sexcapades of the teachers that elia prefers ... people she can relate to. Who don't check her spelling.

Because their family members are all over at the sheriff's dept hard at work in yet another TROUGH. Covering up covering up. While the citizens of Tampa go without REAL law enforcement and some without a decent education because of their THUG mentality.

It's the signs of selective education when some children can't attend school for fear of being beat up by one of the imported elia thugs. It's not like this in other places. ELIA is an environmental specialist in THUGGERY.
I think I'm still angry from reading an evaluation that described her in glowing terms .... in comparison to the reality of what she has done to our schools.
Okay, I'm done. for now.

Lee, please advise. I feel bad if I have commented too much. You're my INSPIRATION ....

Vox Populi said...

part three may be a duplication


so, john olson should be free to live his life. Bless his daughter and hope she loves her dad and has a wonderful life.
BUT, when THEIR wonderful lives come at a cost of MILLIONS being sucked out of taxpayers and being covered up.
And children being shunted from libraries and on to medication or into a room to set up a teacher or a janitor and trying to get someone arrested and imprisoned I say TAKE NO PRISONERS.
I don't care if he's gay til the cows come home(of course) I CARE that it's indicative of the willingness to cover up all over STAMPA and all of them covering for each other while sucking from the trough.
I'm going to be quiet for awhile and try to find something to blog over at my new, untouched blog til I make sure I'm not commenting too much here.
I thought it helped to lend lee and others support in their drive to right the wrongs.
And I think the avg. person dealing with the administration since the elia takeover has a lot of insight into what they actually DO to these children of parents if someone has the nerve to speak up. Doug Erwin had to move to GA to regain a semblance of peace. Try staying and getting your family an education. She has her OWN POLICE FORCE.
The Hillsborough COunty school system is a dangerous place because of her. And because Candy and others cover up for them. Because that's what THEY DO.
So .. of course I deeply admire bart birdsall and steve kemp.

Tip of the iceberg is that lee has to reveal this rather than a reporter finding it out ... (lol) and tip of the iceberg is that some freak finally got caught FONDLING the feet of high school boys ... and NOTHING WAS DONE. Not to mention all the murders at the schools and the sexcapades of the teachers that elia prefers ... people she can relate to. Who don't check her spelling.

Because their family members are all over at the sheriff's dept hard at work in yet another TROUGH. Covering up covering up. While the citizens of Tampa go without REAL law enforcement and some without a decent education because of their THUG mentality.

It's the signs of selective education when some children can't attend school for fear of being beat up by one of the imported elia thugs. It's not like this in other places. ELIA is an environmental specialist in THUGGERY.
I think I'm still angry from reading an evaluation that described her in glowing terms .... in comparison to the reality of what she has done to our schools.
Okay, I'm done. for now.

Lee, please advise. I feel bad if I have commented too much. You're my INSPIRATION ....